Monday 23 May 2011

DOCUMENT II; DILEMMA

Was a blood sucking day from a fun filled and drowsy weekend with mine starting on Thursday. Drunk as if the world would end. Anyway most of us were waiting for this wretched earth to end but not me. I like the fun part of it all the `evil` that most of us celebrate. That is what keep most people sane from everything else- the simple pleasures of life.
 Coming home I tune into the radio(I find it informative and at the same time relaxing -acts like ecstasy). A thought strikes me. What is it that makes relationships so hard to keep up with? Some say with love all other things would fall into place. If any problems crop up then love would act as the weed killer. I beg to differ. Relationships are hard work especially for the younger ones-me included. I find girls or more preferably women a bit selfish. Women are molded to be loved, treated like queens, be on their beck and call, support them keep them your number one priorities if you do not then you are on their wrong end. And their methods of, supposedly, correcting this divergence is gruesome. Am trying to be very careful in choosing my words.
 Couples fight over many things but the most interesting and killer of them all is on the topic of sexual relations. A woman wants what she wants when she wants. It is not a matter of choice. This one thing many men would not think about if offered. It is too sweet a deal.  And this a topic for next time.
Sometimes I wonder if a man is granted the opportunity to get his way once. Or if their opinion is valid? Sometimes you get into an argument and it seems like you are turning rocks into bread. If the woman has made up her mind about something telling her otherwise-disaster! You do not want to get her mad so you let it go. You love her to bits and if she gets mad then the day is ruined. You life at home is a mess. But at the same time it appears like you are being run over. You feel like you could just disappear, get away where there would be no dilemma, no decisions to reconsider and way out options which would always not be in your favor-maybe to a bar.   
Am left to wonder what is better walk away or quote the bible! Man shant leave by bread alone but by the word of the woman. No solution it is still  a  dilemma!

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